Friday, May 3, 2013

Things that make me uncomfortable.


Oops it is a few minutes after midnight - hope this will still count as the May 3 post since I started it before midnight!

Just thinking about things that make me uncomfortable makes me a little uncomfortable and I am probably skipping some biggy that I don't want to think about right now, so here are the 3 main things that come to mind. 

1) speaking in front of groups - in high school I just refused to do class presentations and told the teachers I would rather take a zero.  In college I was determined to face down this fear and purposely put myself in positions where eI would have to do it, like taking a voice class where we had to sing in front of the class by ourselves every day, and trying out for the play of The Patient - I got the title role, and was supposedly in a coma throughout the murder mystery until the last scene where I got to scream).  These days I have to speak in front of groups, presentations at staff meetings, and open houses at school etc. but it still makes me shaky and sweaty. 

2) feeling inept - I am willing to try and learn new things, but I do get uncomfortable when I feel really inept at it.  I used to try to play volleyball with friends at the pool, and one time a teammate referred to me as "the weakest link"(back when that TV show was popular), and that was it.  I could not bring myself to play it anymore.

3) being too hot - I think I feel about this the way most people hate the cold.  I can't stand being hot, and sweating through my clothes, having my hair stick to my neck. All I can think about is jumping into cold water.  If you don't like cold you can always put on more clothing, but there is a limit to what you can take off - at least if you don't want to be arrested.  Sweaty clothes make me feel miserable unless I am in the middle of some kind of workout. I have been known to get out of bed and go sit in a tub of just cold water to cool down enough to sleep.  And that is with the AC on too!

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